Recreating Our First Date

Once upon a time, back in 2007, Nicholas and I went on our first real date.  

I say 'real' because we had hung out a few times previously, but it was always with a group of friends.  Then he returned to power school in South Carolina and our {unofficial} relationship consisted of just phone calls.  Such a glamourous long distance, military relationship life we lead.  

In April 2007, Nicholas took leave and returned home to Missouri.  He drove up to Mizzou and that night, we had our first real date.  It was your cliche 'dinner and a movie' date.  We started at Applebee's for dinner and then headed to the theater to see TMNT.  Yes, that is Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.  I have no shame in admitting I love the turtles and was dying to see this movie.  As a boy, Nick was not opposed to the idea either.  And we loved it!!!  

Fast forward seven years and five months....

When the new Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles movies hit the theaters a few weeks ago, we decided it'd be a cute idea to recreate our first date.  

Friday night, we headed out to Applebee's.  Back then, we just talked about our lives, which were separate and now starting to blend;  more 'getting to know you' talk.  This date consisted of reminiscing about those days which transitioned into talking about visions of our future.  

While at dinner, talking about how crazy it is that this date happened over seven years ago, it was then that I realized we were truly reliving this first date weekend.
You see, April 6, 2007, we went on our first date to Applebee's and to see TMNT (and we became "official" that night after the date.)
And the next day, the reason Nick came in town, we attended a wedding.  Which was the exact same thing we would be doing the following day!!!!!  We had been trying to see this movie for a few weeks and things kept getting in the way.  It's pretty ironic that the day we made it happen, was the day before a wedding.

So we were truly reliving the first date weekend; the first date as an unofficial couple, and the first official date!!!!

As you might have seen on Instagram, I was poking fun at my husband.  You see these four shirts below?  Well, the first two are brand new. He bought them last night before dinner (along with a new tie and three-piece suit).  And the back two are two he already owns.  Ummm....they're almost identical!  Sure, they're different, but just barely!!!  But clearly to my metrosexual husband, they are "significantly different" and he needed these two new ones.  {insert eye roll}

So while I love to give him trouble about how long it takes him to pick out clothes, or complain because he has far more clothes than I do, loves fashion and shopping, and drives me nuts sometimes, I'd be lying if I said I didn't love it.
After he got dressed, I was feeling pretty lucky to be bringing such a dashing man as my date to my volunteers' wedding that afternoon.

I always have and always will be attracted to metrosexual men.  I just love a man who is well groomed, does his hair, loves to dress nicely, and looks damn good while doing it!  I mean, look at him!

So dapper!  And he even cooperated and let me take many, many photos of him.  

{Y'all, I'm not even sorry I'm bombarding you with photos of him.  This is my blog and I love looking back on posts after months and years.  And I know I'll love looking back at this handsome husband of mine.}

I mean, clearly I'm biased since he's my husband, but he's not hard on the eyes so hopefully this isn't too painful for you to look at him ;)  

(Sadly the sleeves became wrinkled by the time I had the idea for him to take off his jacket).

And it just seems appropriate that today I participate in my first ever #ManCrushMonday.  I've never done it.  Mainly because my husband is my crush, but that's cheesy and lame to post. However, I'm here today to be lame and cheesy and declare this man as my #ManCrushMonday...today and everyday.

Okay, so enough of that.  We hopped in the car and headed to the wedding.  Of course, I wanted to snap some more photos.  They were going to be just for myself but then he decided to be an ass and stick his tongue out and act like an angry elf, then declare "Don't post those anywhere".  So naturally I had to post them.

Then it was wedding time!  We were lucky enough to score seats in the shade (although we still sweat half our body weight away).  Thankfully the ceremony was short and then we got to move inside to some air conditioning.

The reception ended early in the evening so we decided to carry out the date by heading to a wine bar and enjoying an evening on the patio.

We still weren't ready to call it a night so we headed to Jax Beach and grabbed a late dinner on a beachside patio.  It was an amazing evening!  The breeze coming off the ocean was perfect.  Afterwards we headed down the street and met up with some of my co-workers until we finally thought it might be good to head home and be good dog parents and stop neglecting the dogs.

It was such a perfect evening.  My husband truly is my best friend so add that in with getting the opportunity to dress up and have a nice evening out; it was the perfect recipe. Work has been getting back into the long work weeks of crazy stressfulness for me and this next week is going to be long and rough for Nick as well.  It was a much needed date and it was nice to bring some sentimentality to it by recreating our first date.

For fun, here's a photo from then, and now!

How did you spend your Labor Day Weekend?
Have you ever recreated a first date or an older moment or event??

Third Anniversary Trip to Charleston, South Carolina.

I'm back in Jax and therefore it's back to the daily grind.  While I'm sad to be back (because there's nothing better than being with family), I am happy to be back with my husband (when I saw him waiting for me after exiting the gates at the airport, I got a belly full of butterflies.  I love that after over 8 years together and 3 years of marriage, this still occurs), happy to see my pups (Yadi was so excited she was crying), and getting back into my routine.

Part of getting back into that routine is blogging again.  I miss blogging.  I find it so therapeutic and it's just something I thoroughly enjoy doing.  Thankfully, as I was lying awake last night, long after Friends left me for George Lopez (nowhere near as awesome), I took to my iPad for some late night insomnia reading.  I came across Juliette's blog and she, along with some other bloggers, have come up with this awesome (and get lofty idea) to blog everyday in July!  They've even created prompts for each day which is even more awesome!  So click on the image below to check out what it's all about and join us!!!!

Today's prompt is to write about Canada Day.  (Simply because one of the hosts above is from Canada and  today is basically like our Independence Day.)  Now, it's not that I don't love Canada, but I don't really feel like being very Canadian today or learning about Canada so I'm going to take today in my own direction.  Also, because I've been meaning to blog about our anniversary for a very long time now.  I mean, it was on June 11th and we're now in July.  Big blogging fail.  

June 11th was our actual three year anniversary, and we celebrated that evening with just a simple night out to dinner.  Our anniversary fell on a Wednesday, we both worked all day, and had to work again the next morning. Normally I'm one for huge celebrations but we had a trip planned that following weekend.

On Thursday night, immediately following kickball, with Nick full of dirt and stank, we made the four hour drive to Charleston, South Carolina.  It holds a special meaning to us since this is kind of where we began. I say kind of in the sense that this is where Nick was living when we began dating.  I was still living in St. Louis but Nick was starting power school for the Navy.  Nick wasn't there too long while we dated, just shy of 6 months, before he was accepted to the United States Naval Academy and moved to Annapolis just after graduating power school.  Life, for me during that time, was pretty crazy as I had just finished chemotherapy treatments and was adjusting to life after cancer, finding my new normal, and returning to 18 credit hour semesters plus 30 hours of work after taking only 12 credit hours and 20 hours of work throughout chemo.  I really regretted never visiting him because he thoroughly loved it there.  And now, after almost 8 years, everyone I know who has lived there or even visited talks about how much they love it there.  

So needless to say, I was pretty excited to get up there and see for myself what everyone talks about.  Nick was pretty excited to show me his old stomping grounds, and I was excited to see all these places I remember him spending so much of his time.

We arrived late Thursday night, checked into our hotel, and crashed.  Friday we woke up, grabbed some hotel breakfast (as we did every morning)

and we opted for the touristy thing and we toured the USS Yorktown aircraft carrier, the USS Laffeydestroyer, and USS Clamagore.  We also walked around the Vietnam camp they recreated, and enjoy lunch there on the property.

 

 

We then took a nice little boat ride over to Fort Sumter which was really cool.  I was never into history until I turned 24 and then I became vastly interested so this was one of the highlights of our trip for me.  It was so amazing to see this old fort, where the Civil War actually began!

 

Afterwards, we headed downtown to drive around for a bit, for Nick to point out some old hangouts.  We also walked through the Market and bought some souvenirs.  

That evening, we went over to a friends house for dinner.  We hadn't seen them since our wedding and since then, they've had a baby and are pregnant with their second!  It was so great to see them and catch up.  They are some of the most generous and down to earth couples we know and I truly wish they lived closer so this could happen more frequently.  However short, I was thankful for a great evening with them.

Since they live in base housing, after leaving their house, Nick took me to NNPTC (Naval Nuclear Power Training Command) to show me where he lived, ate, worked out, went to classes, etc.  I've seen so many pictures of him in these places and it was finally nice to see it in person.

Then we continued to drive all over Goose Creek while we he showed me his old hangouts.  

Saturday, we headed out to the Irvin House Vineyards and Firefly Distillery.

Nick never did this when he lived here and he knows I love me some wine.  (Let me add in an "awww" factor for you.  Nick was deciding what day we would attend the winery and distillery and he looked at their schedule.  He saw that Saturday they had a live reggae band playing and decided that was the perfect day because our honeymoon, where we were exactly three years ago, was in Jamaica and full of reggae music!  I just love him!)

Anyway, back to the alcohol.... For only $5 we each got to sample their 5 wines and keep our glass.  It was good, but they don't have true red wines.  Their wines are more sweet.  And while I don't hate sweet wines, I'm now more of a dry red wine fan.  We still bought a few bottles anyway.  You knew I wasn't leaving a winery empty handed.

Then we headed next door to the distillery and for $6, you could choose any of the below 6 to sample, and you got to keep your shot glass.

 

 

 

We ended up leaving with Peach Moonshine, Strawberry Moonshine (which will get you in trouble because it doesn't even taste like alcohol), and the Java Rum (which I took home to my family and we used to make bushwackers each night).  

Afterwards, we were pretty intoxicated, me moreso than Nick because he's responsible and only sipped some shots and dumped the rest or gave it to the guy next to us.  Aka he's old and lame ;)  Anyway, afterwards, we weren't yet ready to drive so we hung out and walked around the vineyard.

 

 

 

There was a cow that loved Nick and apparently hated me.  Every time I went to pet her, she threw her head with her tiny horns into me.  I think I might have been too loud for her.  

Afterwards, we went home, napped a little, showered, and got ready for a nice little dinner.

We were early for our reservations so we parked along the battery and just walked along the water.  And of course got our picture taken in front of the giant pineapple fountain.

Following dinner, we walked all over downtown Charleston, bar hopping.  We visited each of Nick's old bar hangouts, got a drink, enjoyed talking and reminiscing and then scooted off to the next place.

Sunday we headed to the Citadel and RJ (Nick's USNA sponsor parents son) showed us around.

It's a beautiful campus!!  Then we headed out to eat at one of Nick's favorite, Hyman's Seafood.  As were sitting there, someone mentioned each of our seats had a tiny plaque on the table of a celebrity who has sat there.  I probably got a little too excited when I saw who's place at the table I was sitting in.....

We then said our goodbyes, with hopes to come back this fall (pending a deployment) to watch RJ wrestle for the Citadel. Then we hopped in the car and began our trek home, but not before Nick bought me a Cheerwine because I'd never heard of it.  And I loved it!!

The weekend flew by was it nice to be with Nicholas, no distractions from work, friends, the dogs, the house, etc.  We were removed from our phones the entire time.  I only hopped on social media while Nick pooped, showered, or when insomnia kicked in.  And let me tell you, it was nice.  On this trip, I realized the difference it made.  We were 100% and truly present.  It was very needed after the last few months of barely seeing each other and when we did, me being incredibly irritable due to the stress from work.  I hope to continue in to put the phones, iPads, and laptops away at home and just be present when we do get time together.